Farewell Korea

BBM KOREA | Incheon, South Korea | Farewell KoreaThe idea of writing this post seems so strange. While I flew out of Incheon airport one week ago, it still doesn’t feel real that I won’t be going right back. At this time last Thursday, I was wrapping up my final classes, grading end of semester tests, and finishing my last report cards painfully trying to ignore the fact that I would be leaving in less than 24 hours.

How did the time go so quickly?! Thinking back to the summer of 2015, I so clearly remember tensely packing my two huge suitcases to fly to Korea and start this adventure. I was anxious about where this decision would lead but excited and ready to try something new. Never could I have imagined that a one-year hiatus from my Chicago life would so easily become a two-year reality.

In the time that I was away from home, I met incredible new friends, decorated a sweet little apartment, mastered a new job, taught over 400 students, and got to travel the world. I feel so lucky to have had such an incredible experience.

While it doesn’t quite seem like time, indeed the time has come to say a grateful farewell to the country that allowed me to make it my home away from home. Thank you, Korea, and I’m sure we will meet again.

As for now, I’m currently off on an entirely different adventure as I continue my explorations through Asia for the next three months. Follow along via Instagram.

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#bbmtravels.

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Monday Motivation

BBM KOREA | Motivation Monday

 

This week’s motivation comes from one of the best. Waking up on Saturday morning to a message from a friend that Shania had released a new song was already a fantastic start to the weekend, but this song has been keeping me going for days.  While the story of the song is a sorrowful tale of love, the message it shares about taking the bad and turning it to good is one that resonates with almost anyone.

There is so much to love about the single, however it’s the repeated line, and title, “life’s about to get good” that I can’t stop singing along to. With the weeks of my life here in Korea dwindling there has been a lot of thinking to do about what will come next. While the prospects of what the future holds are exciting, it’s also overwhelming to think of what will happen when this life I’ve cultivated here on the other side of the world is over. That simple line though has me smiling as a great reminder that indeed, “life’s about to get good”.  Enjoy!

Here’s to a productive week.
Happy Monday!

Monday Motivation

BBM KOREA | Motivation Monday

Months and months ago I came across this video whilst in a YouTube hole and found myself completely inspired by five minutes in as Reese Witherspoon is talking about being the one to make changes when we see problems in the world. The four women discuss equality in Hollywood, however they move further into the subject of empowering women throughout different areas of life in general and encouraging women to write their own stories.

I love open conversations between wise women be it in real life or in the media. If you have 30 minutes to spare this week, I highly recommend having a watch.

Here’s to a productive week.
Happy Monday!

Monday Motivation

BBM KOREA | Motivation Monday

Mondays can be tough to be excited about, but with each Monday morning there comes a bit of a restart button. I try to be especially productive on Mondays as a way to get energized for the rest of the week, and one of the things that helps me to focus on the week ahead is a specific list of especially empowering songs. One in particular that I’ve had on repeat lately is “Womankind” by Annie Lennox, released just over a decade ago in 2007.

While my Monday motivation typically only lasts ’till about Wednesday before I need another reset, this song has been getting me through my weeks and encouraging me to stay on track with my goals.

Here’s to a productive week.
Happy Monday!

Wise Words on Presidents’ Day

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In my research for the perfect Presidents’ Day quote to post to Instagram, I found myself sifting through dozens of websites searching for inspiring word from our first president, George Washington.

I expected I would have a handful to choose from that I would find very meaningful, however what I discovered was a seemingly endless number of quotes nearly perfectly pertinent to the political landscape we currently find ourselves in. I landed on an uplifting and inspiring quote saying, “Perseverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.”

My thought was that this was politically respectful enough to feel comfortable posting on such a public platform, however, it also captures so much of how so many people are feeling. We seem to be in unchartered waters politically, and I think it is so important for us to remember who we are as a nation. What could be more helpful in jogging our memory than a few famous words from the first leader of our great country.

So here they are, in no particular order, some of the most wise and currently relevant words from President Washington.

“Observe good faith and justice toward all nations. Cultivate peace and harmony with all.”

“If the freedom of speech is taken away then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter.”

“Guard against the impostures of pretended patriotism.”

“Labor to keep alive in your breast that little spark of celestial fire, called conscience.”

“Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distress of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse.”

“The Constitution is the guide which I never will abandon.”

Associate with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for it is better to be alone than in bad company.

I hope I shall possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an honest man.”

“There is nothing which can better deserve your patronage, than the promotion of science and literature. Knowledge is in every country the surest basis of public happiness.”

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Happy Presidents’ Day

Monday Motivation

BBM KOREA | Motivation Monday

 

This past summer I came across a video of The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet posted on Youtube. The interviews are already a few years old, but the content is still extraordinary.

I find myself watching and re-watching these interviews every time I need a little motivation to be productive or a little inspiration to push me further towards becoming the woman I want to be. I adore the positive message behind these interviews. They allow honest talk between women, like you would have with your best girl friends, but then allow for deeper context which is awe-inspiring. They are non-judgmental conversations and stories of successful, authentic women.

My favorite part of the videos is at the end when she asks a series of questions to each interviewee and then goes to the street to ask real women those same questions. There is one in particular in which she asks, “What advice would you give to your 14-year-old self?” A powerful question, with equally powerful responses.

This interview series is soulful and thought-provoking. I always leave with a new perspective of my own life and my future, as well as, a deeper respect for many celebrities I didn’t know much about. Jane Fonda- you have my heart!

I so encourage anyone looking for a bit of inspiration or perspective to delve into these videos as a start to your week.

Happy Monday!

Saying goodbye to the year of the monkey

As a person who indulges in horoscopes here and there, I’m always intrigued by reading the Chinese yearly horoscopes at the start of the Lunar New Year. Being born in ’92 I’m a monkey, so 2016 was supposed to be my year. This Saturday welcomes the year of the rooster and brings with it a new basket of opportunities.

Reading my horoscope for the year of the monkey was incredibly inspiring last winter.  I held close bits of it throughout the year that I still hope to keep in my mind in 2017. One of my favorites being – have faith in your intuition, your heart will not steer you wrong.

BBM KOREA | 2016 Year of the Monkey

 

This year, I’ll be celebrating the Chinese New Year in Taipei, Taiwan, and I’m looking forward to potentially witnessing some traditional celebrations. As this new year begins, as always, comes new opportunities. Hoping the year of the rooster brings more adventures, life experiences, and learning opportunities.

I’ll be posting photos of Taipei on Instagram so be sure to follow along at #bbmtravelstaipei.

Happy New Year!

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January 20, 2017

Well, the day has arrived. I’ve just woken up in Incheon,  South Korea on January 20, 2017. While it may still be January 19th back home, we are, none the less, just a matter of hours away from when President-elect Trump will be inaugurated as President of the United States.

Sifting through Facebook this morning I saw a mixture of messages that grabbed my attention. From news postings of what the Trump administration will look like and clips of cabinet confirmation hearings, to selfies of women on their way to the Women’s March on Washington and feminist quotes of inspiration; scrolling through was a minute of empowerment followed by a moment of fear followed by a bit of inspiration. Much of what I imagine this year is going to look like.

Having said that, the part that I hope we can focus on is the inspiration and the empowerment that have filled women since November 9th. I hope we continue to lift each other up and strengthen one another. I hope that we find a way to listen to each other, as we each have our own story, wisdom, and individual journey to be shared and celebrated. I hope that we do not let fear settle in, but instead find a way to let our voices be heard. I hope that we are grateful for, and confident in, the power that we hold. And lastly, I hope that we are never content with the progress that has been made when there is still so much work to be done.

A friend sent me an article earlier in the week that stated it would be 158 years before the gender gap closed in North America. 158 years. Longer than in any other part of the world. At first I took this to be disconcerting, but what I later realized was that this could be our challenge. A challenge for multitudes of current and future generations to do everything we can to change this for our daughters, our granddaughters, our goddaughters, our nieces, our sisters, our friends, our students, our patients, ourselves.

With adversity comes determination. This inauguration should be a marking point, not of panic, but a time to come together. To band together regardless of gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, education level, socioeconomic status, or nationality, to stand up for our equality world-wide. To work as one team to close gender gaps across the world in our lifetimes. To make the change we want to see in the world and set that example for future generations of boys and girls to see.

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Just after the election I found a quote from Hillary Rodham Clinton herself that I found to be completely inspiring. In her student commencement address at Wellesley College in 1969, she said, “Fear is always with us but we just don’t have time for it. Not now.” With that said, let us remember that right now is not at time to be afraid, but a time to inspire and guide one another as we continue our push for equality.

BBM KOREA | Perspective

 

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Political Perspective {Observing the 2016 Election Overseas}

BBM KOREA | Incheon, South Korea | Political PerspectiveSince taking a U.S. Government class at the age of 15, I’ve been fascinated by politics and the democratic system that runs our country. I remember being 16 and watching the McCain-Obama race unfold, mesmerized by both the show and the policy alike. I did research, watched debates, and cast a ballot in my first general election at the age of 20. I watched the numbers roll in late through the night as Obama was voted into his second term. I’ve indulged in political documentaries, movies, books, and television series based in fictional political worlds that grab your attention and refuse to let go.

Though in the past politics has merely been an interest or a form of entertainment for me,  this current election has quickly surpassed entertaining and moved into heart palpitations, literal nightmares, and loss of words. I’ve had a unique privilege of observing everything that’s happened from overseas. Thanks to modern technology I’ve been able to stay in the loop of the goings on in the U.S., while living on the other side of the world where one would think it would be possible to escape the insanity.

{A New Perspective}
Moving to Korea last August gave me a fresh appreciation for the country and city in which I was raised. I became so proud of the diversity that I naively grew up in without noticing the cultures surrounding me.  While Korea is a beautiful country, but it’s not exactly swimming with a mixture of races and cultures. It has actually become surprising to see someone of another race outside of the 16 foreign teachers that I work with. We all commented that we now find ourselves staring at any other foreigner who passes by. And hearing a bit of English, forget it. My head may as well spin off.

For months I was almost upset at Korea for being so undiverse. I held a small grudge against the hundreds of Korean restaurants I would pass without having a single Mexican restaurant for miles. Now,in the country’s defense, Seoul is actually much more diverse than outlying cities, however, living in the country’s third largest city with over 2.5 million residents, one would hope for more culture.

It wasn’t until a day out searching for hummus that I had a realization. Most countries are exactly like Korea. Made up of generally one race. Eating their versions of comfort food with an ethnic restaurant here and there. I thought back about my recent trip to Italy, had I seen a single Chinese restaurant in the time we were there? No. Had I seen anyone who wasn’t Italian that seemed like a resident? No. Plenty of tourists sure, but nobody who had the confidence of living in the county full-time. It was this day that I became eternally grateful for growing up just outside the city limits of Chicago. I called the city home for five years and couldn’t walk a block without seeing someone of a different culture, hearing a different language, or smelling food from a foreign restaurant. It is probably the thing that I miss most about home.

{The Election Overseas}
Witnessing previous elections from the States, I hadn’t realized the international attention that our elections draw and the effect they could have. That said, this is an unprecedented election with unprecedented media coverage.

I believe my first recognition of this election’s impact overseas was in early June as it was becoming clearer that Trump could very realistically become the Republican nominee. Before June I had been having conversations between teachers at school all from the U.S. or Canada which didn’t seem like much of a political reach. It wasn’t until a night in June when we were out grabbing a drink after work at a local bar.

It was a crowded Friday night and some Koreans asked to join our table. We of course said yes and welcomed some new acquaintances and conversations. Though their English was limited and our Korean was nearly nonexistent, it took less than five minutes for the obligatory where are you from conversation to occur.

Upon hearing two of us were from the U.S. the next conversation was of course about Trump, his crazy ideas, his insults, and us trying to convince these people that not all Americans share his ideas. That we didn’t personally know anyone voting for him. At that time we could almost still laugh about it with a hope that it wouldn’t really happen.

And then it did.

Over six months later his actions, present and past, continue to make headlines both back home and overseas. After each debate I found myself at school the next day in conversations with Canadians feeling sorry about the representation our country was getting.

As I’ve traveled over the past few months Trump and his actions seem impossible to escape. A cab driver in Jeju Island, who spoke maybe 40 words of English, somehow couldn’t communicate the words beach or swimming with us, yet made the effort to communicate “Trump-crazy”.

In Vietnam this September,  I overheard people at the table next to me discussing the election at breakfast. They seemed to be a mix of Canadians and native Vietnamese citizens expressing their concerns for the American’s who would be voting in the upcoming months.

Most recently, in Hong Kong, on our train ride from the airport into the city, the television was showing a news program reporting something in Chinese which had Trump’s name and face front and center.

Ironically, as I turn around in the café where I’m currently writing this post, the man next to me is reading an article on Trump right now.  Trump’s words and ideas of foreign policy are making headlines and table conversation worldwide. Including the most eye-opening moment that happened in school a few weeks ago.

There is a class of students that I had the pleasure of teaching for a year. They are sweet, thoughtful, and brilliant. They are far smarter than I am, and they are just about to finish fifth grade.

After a friend of mine, their current teacher, ended her class with them, she reported to me that they spent the first 15 minutes discussing the presidential election happening half a world away in the United States. She told me that they were expressing their ideas on his foreign policy. That they didn’t want him to win because of his views on having American soldiers in South Korea or his welcoming comments this summer towards North Korean dictator, Kim Jong Un.

Every day I taught these students someone said something that made me in awe, but this surprised me the most. The fact that they have opinions and chose to use free time in class to discuss them gave me so much perspective as to how much this election is going to affect not only our nation, but the entire world. It also gave an entirely new meaning to the phrase, “Are you smarter than a fifth grader?”

{Ready to Vote}
The countdown to the election can now be measured in hours. Millions of people have cast their ballots early and votes are currently being counted. As the numbers are tallied I find myself growing more worried each day as the margins shrink. I’ve done my part voting from overseas, and now I simply have to hold my breath and wait. Hoping that the country I left will remain the welcoming and diverse country I return to next year.

I’ve discussed, I’ve prayed, and most importantly, I’ve voted. I’ve filled in a ballot, coloring in a bubble for a woman whom I believe cares for people of all races, nationalities, religions, and genders. For a woman whom I believe will lead the country the continue to be respected by nations overseas. For a woman whom I believe will maintain our country’s greatness as a land where all are welcome. For a woman whom I hope will continue her legacy and forever be remembered as the first female president of the United States of America.  And I could not be prouder to have done so.

I’m with her.

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